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Is it my responsibility to say that I am gay?
I recently met this guy and we are becoming great friends. He is from Spain male, talks about sports and beer, but never mentions the girls. I suppose that is right, due to some other comments I think she would be uncomfortable if he knew that his new friend was gay. So … I'm not exactly told. I do not lie if asked, and I do not feel censored around, so if he not have to tell me that is heterosexual, why do I have to announce that I'm gay?
you probably already know anyway. of course given our biased society he may think you simply do not want to leave. it is to respect their "space" so to speak. All you do is tell all cylinders. if he is your Friend will not mind. just tell him "look, this has been bothering me, I feel like I want / need to tell you I'm gay." I say this because it bothers you or they have not asked the question. so get off your chest. I understand, however, he does not like to feel that one is "hiding a secret." because in some way makes it appear that there is something wrong and if he found out "Hells Bells" kind of thing. relax, as I said, you probably know, and if he is your friend does not care. if you have a problem with it, oh well. that's their problem. you can not be so desperate for friends.
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